Ever been scared to go to the dentist? This won’t help.
April 30, 2012
Beware a scorned woman with dental pliers. A Polish man learned this lesson the hard way when his dentist ex-girlfriend pulled out all his teeth during a surgery days after he’d dumped her for another woman.
“I tried to be professional and detach myself from my emotions,” said Anna Machowiak, 34, who practices her trade in Wroclaw, Poland, according to the U.K.’s Daily Mail. “But when I saw him lying there, I just thought, ‘What a bastard.’”
When I first read this I actually felt really bad for the guy. One might ask themselves “What could possibly drive a person to commit such an act just because someone dumped them?” It’s sad that so many relationships end so horribly but I would contend that there’s something more to this story. It’s possible that this woman had some mental problems and the guy was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. However, it is more likely that this woman had given herself to this man emotionally and physically and he became her world. He probably told her that he loved her and that he would do anything for her. He probably told her he would never leave her and that she meant the world to him. He probably promised her that he would serve and protect her for the rest of his life and that if it ever came down to it… he would give up everything for her – even if it meant giving his own life. He could have told her all of this without even saying a word…
Physical intimacy speaks this language of eternity and complete self donation. The problem is that when this girl was dumped by this guy and then she saw him with another girl her world fell apart. Everything promise he made to her then became empty and meaningless. She had been lied to and betrayed. Our bodies can promises even if we don’t intend to. When we give our bodies over to another and ask them to give theirs to us we are creating a supernatural union that can not be broken. If we don’t intend for that purpose then we are speaking lies with our bodies, making empty promises and setting ticking time bombs that will eventually end up exploding on us. I realize that I’m assuming that this was the situation with the Polish dentist but even if it wasn’t revenge is very common among couples who are engaging in sex outside of marriage and then have a bad split. Relationships weren’t designed this way, they were never meant to cause so much pain and heartache.
My guess is that this woman was heartbroken and she wanted the man to feel the pain that she felt when she saw him with another woman. She wanted him to feel what it was like to become vulnerable in front of someone else only to be used and taken advantage of. The polish dentist is now facing having her medical license revoked and up to three years in prison. I would bet that punishment isn’t as painful as the heart break she felt when she saw the man to whom she gave her body with another woman; the man who promised her everything and promised to be with her forever – now promising those same things to another woman…